quizzical pussy

This ConTuesday has several sorts of anonymous confessions to sample: transgressive, triumphant, murky, and really kind of gut-wrenching.

While I was married to my first wife, I had an affair with her sister, that lasted about a year. In all honesty, I should have stayed with the sister, life would have been much better. One night, I butt-fucked my SIL, and then went upstairs, and woke up my wife, and had her give me a blow job. What made it even more weird was that my SIL stood in the hallway and masturbated while she watched us.

I recently discovered that if I apply really strong pressure to my clitoris as I’m orgasming, the climax keeps going for an extra thirty seconds or so. I wish it was socially acceptable to share these sorts of little personal triumphs with the world at large, but it’s not, so I’ll share it with you.

You know how something will randomly pop into your head and you’ll think “I have to remember to look this up on the internet later”, but you don’t have a smart phone and you every time– without fail– forget to look it up when you’re actually on a computer? Well, in a similar vein, I keep meaning to try this!

Boy, you are very cute and you have a tophat, which is always a plus. However, you violate the xkcd rule, so despite your flirting I doubt we shall ever have a relationship. …Maybe making out. But that is definitely the limit here.

If I wear top hat will you make out with me? I’m just curious here.

I confessed here before my boyfriend barely touches me. He’s doing such a great job convincing me he doesn’t find me attractive, that I’m starting to find him less attractive… I go to get my nethers waxed and think sadly how I’ll keep paying for this because at least twice a month, I know someone will touch me below the waist.

If I wear a top hat will you let me give you a big hug? Because this confession really makes me want to.

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ConTuesday is here, and it’s all about creative problem solving. Here are some innovative anonymous confessions from mysterious denizens of the internet:

As quite an overtly sexual, somewhat kinky type, I’m often attracting shocked/disdainful/disapproving looks from passers by, when sneaking betwixt clubs and hotels and whatnot.

When I receive such a look, I really enjoy (despite almost never finding the person attractive) vividly imagining the giver of the look and myself engaged in the filthiest sexual practice I can come up with at the time, then making eye contact and imagining how they’d feel if they knew what I was thinking.

I’m increasingly unsure if this is hilarious or genuinely sinister.

I’m a rather closeted bisexual-sex-fiend and there are no sex toy stores near me, thus explaining my lack of dildos. I use mascara tubes after they’re done. My fravourite is Lash Max by Maybelline ;D

Now I’m wondering if those vibrating mascaras would be any good.

I cheated on my boyfriend. Three times so far (all with the same guy). The first two times I just gave him head, but the third time we had sex. I really don’t like the guy I’m cheating with, but his cock is really fabulous so I keep wanting to do it even though I know I shouldn’t and really don’t want to except for the awesome sex. I wish my boyfriend gave me as awesome sex, then I wouldn’t still be waiting the other guy.

My husband and I have an “open marriage”. My husband fucks like a porn star but he kisses me like I’m his 90 year old Aunt. Kissing is just about my favorite thing to do, so much so that I’d rather make-out with someone than get oral. If he’d kiss me half as passionately as he fucks, I’d have no need for other men.

If only partners were modular and you could upgrade just one thing. Of course, people have been saying that since time began. Great sex and kissing are pretty great, though. I will have one of each, size large.

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I knew you guys had more crazy confessions! Want proof? Here are some I’ve received in the last week (with one of my own slipped in). I once again have some in reserve, so if yours didn’t post today you’ll definitely see it in the coming weeks.

When my (now husband) and I started dating the idea that he was my first “real boyfriend” made him really uncomfortable- he always figured that I couldn’t know if I really liked him if I didn’t have anything to compare him to. To console him I told him that I had always been so busy I just had a bunch of fuck buddies instead of boyfriends- except that I only had one lover before him (who was 20 years my senior). Amazingly, this made him feel much better. But now, I have to remember that damn made up number, cause every so often he’ll ask a question about my “past”.

A guy who had a crush on me once told me he wanted to fuck me sweetly with my own cane (which I use for, like, walking), and I thought that was kind of a darling and intriguing concept. Too bad I wasn’t attracted to him in the least and his kisses felt roughly like a blobfish looks.

On a scale of one to obvious, one being obvious and obvious being really fucking obvious, how obvious is it that I wrote this one?

I’m newly married. And the sex with my husband is incredibly boring. And I’m terrified that I will never have awesome sex.

I bought an eroscillator – one of the deluxe packages with the powerful motor and all – and it just doesn’t do anything for me. I kind of feel like I’m blaspheming the ultimate Dr. Ruth endorsed toy of wonders every time I use my three year old magic wand instead.

Just so you know, internet anonymity may be the only thing saving you from getting clubbed like a baby seal and having your eroscillator wrested from your toy chest. Not because of any blasphemy or anything, just because I really want one and now I know you’re not using yours.

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Got a sex secret or three? Let them fly away into the internet and be free! No one will know it was you… unless of course you’re me, apparently. But I’m confident you’re not, so have at it!

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Laramy was about to get up from his computer chair to do something that was probably a medium amount of pressing when I suddenly grabbed the armrest, wheeled him around and pulled him toward me. Then I kissed him… not super roughly, exactly, but not gently either.

“You know you could just ask me to come over and kiss you, right?” he cocked his head like a very quizzical puppy. Laramy thinks I’m silly. He’s likely correct.

“Sometimes it’s more fun to manhandle you a little,” I admitted. “You know you like it.”

“Yup,” he gave me a reassuring whisper of a kiss; then, pulling back, his lips curled into a little grin. “Hey, do you remember when we first started hanging out, and you were so timid? We just cuddled and kissed a little for weeks and weeks…”

“Yeah. So did it surprise you when you figured out I’m a sex fiend?”

“It did. But it was a good surprise.” I’m usually one of those infuriating people who don’t know how to accept positive statements about themselves without a struggle, but I took his word on that one. I’m sure it was a relief when we finally stopped just cuddling.

Freaks are the best. Whenever there’s a possibility of playing with someone new, I always hope I have a sex-crazed maniac on my hands. Because honestly, if you don’t have a stellar sex drive I’m going to want eight of you. But I’m sure I would be dismayed evaluating myself at first… you know, if I were hoping to fuck myself. I’m a stealth freak. On a first date, for instance, I’m basically just a little warmer than my basic non-flirting technique. I’m not very physical; I probably end up talking less about sex than I do with random strangers or my coworkers. Sadly.

I think I’m almost afraid of how much power sex, orgasms, and by extension anyone who provides me with them, can have over me. I’m also worried about unleashing the full weight of my sexual desire on people. I’m concerned that it will crush them into a bloody, quivering pulp, or worse, turn them off. I guess you could say that my sex drive actually intimidates me, so I don’t hold out much hope for a near-stranger. I’m glad not everyone has hangups like these because then human reproductive activity for sport or species would be like Vogon paperwork: there would be so much senseless delay and complication that nothing new would ever get started.

And that would make the quizzical pussy very sad, to the point where maybe she’d have to suck it up and grab some crotches! Respectfully, of course.

I’m actually horrible about initiating sex, for the aforementioned reasons. I simply don’t do it at all. Being more or less always up for making the beast with two backs, I’ve fallen into the unhealthy habit of always letting other people decide when they want me and just waiting, doing calming breathing exercises, and praying to Our Lady of Thwarted Libido in between these times. It’s not a flawless system, so learning to initiate sex is yet another thing on my “To work on” list. Making out initiation, though? That I can manage to do without an order, signed in triplicate, sent in, sent back, queried, lost, found, subjected to public enquiry, lost again, and finally buried in soft peat for three months.

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