Comments on: Oh God! The bi privilege! http://quizzicalpussy.com/oh-god-the-bi-privilege/ a sex blog that gets curiouser and curiouser. Thu, 17 May 2012 11:54:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: quizzical pussy http://quizzicalpussy.com/oh-god-the-bi-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-57 quizzical pussy Fri, 22 Jan 2010 04:16:11 +0000 http://quizzicalpussy.com/?p=350#comment-57 <a href="#comment-52" rel="nofollow">@Retro </a> I want to avoid hurting my parents and dealing with the drama; I'm not sure it's so much that I care about what they think, but I could certainly be fooling myself about that one. I've always tended to be very private about my personal life with my parents. I usually consider my relationships and activities barely any of their business at all, so I don't have much internal pressure to come out and declare myself. But if I had a very serious relationship with a woman, of course that would change. Bi females are pretty common in my circles too. Lucky me. :) @Retro I want to avoid hurting my parents and dealing with the drama; I’m not sure it’s so much that I care about what they think, but I could certainly be fooling myself about that one. I’ve always tended to be very private about my personal life with my parents. I usually consider my relationships and activities barely any of their business at all, so I don’t have much internal pressure to come out and declare myself. But if I had a very serious relationship with a woman, of course that would change.

Bi females are pretty common in my circles too. Lucky me. :)

]]> By: Retro http://quizzicalpussy.com/oh-god-the-bi-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-52 Retro Thu, 21 Jan 2010 10:51:57 +0000 http://quizzicalpussy.com/?p=350#comment-52 I havn't been reading you long enough to have a sense of how old you are, but as you grow older, what your parents think of your behaviour becomes a whole lot less important. And I suspect how they react to "coming out" to things is also mellowed down a lot, maybe because they're older and maybe because they realise you've done fine so far. Or maybe I'm just speaking for my own parents :-) But as I said, whatever I do, they don't need to know about. My gal's bi, been since before I met her. I... might be, dunno, the right male hasn't crossed my path yet. In the circles we move in, or rather, in some of the circles we move in, being a bi female is more than the norm. I'd guess about 10% of the gals are straight. But there are very few guys prepared to confess to being bi. People are still not comfortable with the thought. Thinking about it, maybe it relates to your "fapping" post. That guys need more visual stimulation -- gals look sexy to both sexes, but guys look mostly sexy to gals? Thought in progress :-) I havn’t been reading you long enough to have a sense of how old you are, but as you grow older, what your parents think of your behaviour becomes a whole lot less important.

And I suspect how they react to “coming out” to things is also mellowed down a lot, maybe because they’re older and maybe because they realise you’ve done fine so far.

Or maybe I’m just speaking for my own parents :-)

But as I said, whatever I do, they don’t need to know about.

My gal’s bi, been since before I met her. I… might be, dunno, the right male hasn’t crossed my path yet. In the circles we move in, or rather, in some of the circles we move in, being a bi female is more than the norm. I’d guess about 10% of the gals are straight. But there are very few guys prepared to confess to being bi. People are still not comfortable with the thought.

Thinking about it, maybe it relates to your “fapping” post. That guys need more visual stimulation — gals look sexy to both sexes, but guys look mostly sexy to gals? Thought in progress :-)

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